Wednesday, September 20, 2006

TV, Duct Tape, Churchaholism and a Puppy

During my final year of bachelorhood, I had a string of unstable roommates. Granted, most of them were stable in and of themselves, it's just that they couldn't stick around for long. But you know, it wasn't me, it was them. (That's what they always said, anyway.)

The most memorable roomate among them, though, was Nate. Nate was your typical rock-climber DJ mime from Ohio. Eventually he got a puppy (against the rules) without asking me, and after a month decided to move elsewhere so he could keep it. Nate didn't do me much good as a roommate, except for one thing. One evening I complained that it was too easy just to sit down and watch TV instead of getting my stuff done. He said, "Why don't you just get rid of it? You don't need a TV." Simple advice, but it hit me between the eyes. So I did it.

In and of itself, TV is not a bad thing. Just like any medium or entertainment, it's like duct tape... you know, light side, dark side. But when you start getting stuck to it, it wraps itself around your arms and legs, and you fall over and at first you call out for help but then you feel all cozy and decide that the floor's not as hard as you thought, and maybe if you can slide yourself over to the fridge life might not be so bad after all.

But my point is (yes, there's a point!) that when good things become addictive, we need to learn how to live without them for awhile. Now my wife and I watch half an hour of Good Morning America each day, a couple of Simpsons episodes on DVD each week, and the occasional something else. But for a long time we watched no TV at all. And during that time I learned what it was like to actually get things done, and not rely so heavily on entertainment.

Do you think church services are kind of like that? Like TV or Sex or Prescription Drugs that can strangle us if we get too attached to them? I wonder often if Christendom has lost track of its spiritual identity without the standard Sunday morning presentation. Maybe we need a fast. Maybe we need to take a break from the Sanctuaries and Sermons and Choirs just long enough to remember what it means to follow Christ with our lives. Maybe if we did that, we would have to re-think what it means to not "forsake our meeting together", and we would invite people over for dinner and pray with people at work and share our souls with good friends without falling back on just inviting them to church like we've always done.

And when the fast is over, I suppose we could come back to the old Sunday morning bit with a new perspective... for that weekly experience to be a beautiful part of our faith, not the only part.

And by the way... if you're gonna do this, don't just rename the Sanctuary the Auditorium, call the Sermons Messages, and replace the Choir with a Worship Team. That doesn't count.

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8 Comments:

At 7:36 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Heeyyy, that sounds like an awfully good idea... if and when we can get over the guilt of not "going to church".

[sniff sniff]

Is that...worms?...i smell?

 
At 3:04 PM , Blogger Yardbird said...

Just once I'd love to hear a pastor announce from the pulpit, "Next Sunday we're closed. I encourage all of you to take your families on a walk in the woods and get in touch with God."

But the congregants wouldn't know what to do without the Sunday morning Big Show - and the Board would be sore vexed, for sure.

 
At 3:16 PM , Blogger The Coreman said...

I do want to clarify myself a bit... I would never advocate canceling a church service because the service is wasting time that could be used in other ways. I believe firmly that Christ-followers should gather together on a regular basis. It's just that we should do it with intentionality and purpose, and not just because we've always done it.

My main point, however, is that maybe we should cancel church for a month in order to remember what Christianity is apart from the whole Sunday morning routine.

I don't care what people do with their Sunday mornings once they have them free. My main concern would be to ask people once the month is over what their Christianity amounted to. If you can't live out your faith without a weekly church service, then you can't live out your faith with one, either.

Just like TV, or the Internet. It can be a great benefit in our lives... if we keep it in its place.

 
At 10:09 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I realize you probably didn't mean it, but since you said it, I'll comment on it for the sake of clarification. Like I said earlier, I like shaking things up, fasting for a time to provide fresh perspective. But I don't think you meant it when you said, "If you can't live out your faith without a weekly church service, you can't live it with one either." If you mean that only with regard to a particular type of service, then i'm with you. But there's a certain need that Christians do have for corporate prayer, worship, and instruction. It's only part of the Christian experience, but a necessary part. And if we neglect it, then we lose out on something. But we can definitely do without the show, that's for sure. And if show is synonymous with service, then we can do without the service.

 
At 6:37 AM , Blogger Yardbird said...

Coreman, you don't have to explain yourself every time I post a comment. I feel my contributions to this blog cause you worry. No need, I understood what you were saying.

I am adding that personally, I absolutely WOULD advocate canceling a church service because the service is wasting time that could be used in other ways.

 
At 8:33 AM , Blogger The Coreman said...

Beloved, it sounds like you got my meaning towards the end of your comment there... to me, a "service" is something that can be good or bad, but is not necessary. It doesn't even have to be a show for me to consider it a service. It just needs to be depersonalized and un-engaging. You know, something to attend. That's why I enjoy calling our weekly activities "gatherings."

And Yardbird, if you read my flagship post, you'll see that I do not write this blog just for the sake of a soapbox. I crave conversation, and I probably jump into the comments more often than most bloggers. So don't think I'm necessarily feeling the need to explain or defend myself. I just enjoy the interaction. Let me just say thanks for coming!

 
At 11:31 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

"you'll see that I do not write this blog just for the sake of a soapbox. I crave conversation"

Actually, I see that this is true. Ha! Cool.

 
At 12:36 PM , Blogger Phillip Scoggins said...

I think if we started watching tv at church I would probably come more, ecspecially if we watch The Office. You kind of make me sick in that you watch GMA, The Simpsons and some other random shows and you totally leave out The Office. What is wrong with you?

 

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